The way we feel can be triggered by outside events.
And that can change how we act.
And the way we act can reinforce how we feel.
Of course, the opposite is true as well, and far more in our active control.
How we act always changes how we feel.
Two mood-changing actions:
1. This is a perfect moment for upskilling. For a sprint in learning something difficult to learn. Not because a teacher or a leader made us do it, but because we chose to. Not only do we get to keep that skill forever, but the act of taking control and expending the effort will change our mood.
- My upskilling focus? Continuing to add skills and practice conducting activities for our interactive virtual learning experience sessions.
2. And this is the perfect moment for generous connection. Going way beyond the news of the day, we have the chance to create intimate digital interactions that last.
- How are we creating connection at Aha! Leadership remotely? We are holding virtual coffee breaks. We are designating 20 minutes for casual conversation via video chat. We are celebrating wins, exchanging personal updates and even sharing a funny meme or two. It provides us the positive connection people crave.
- Who says you can’t have cake with coffee? Our intern turned 20 years old this week and here is a picture of us celebrating with her virtually…pajamas and all! While it may not be her ideal way to celebrate her new decade, I am sure it will be one she will retell fondly for years to come. A little coordination with a family member for the surprise went a long way!
It’s a significant posture shift, one which might change who you see when you look in the mirror.
We might not be able to do anything about external events, but we have control over our actions. Sometimes, it’s hard to stare right into that opportunity, because it comes with a lot of responsibility.
As leaders of our teams, our families, people are watching….what can we model? What will you learn today? Who will you teach?
Judy Rathwell, Project Manager-Aha! Leadership
Excerpt from Seth Godin Blog 3.23.20