7 Secrets to Exceptional Leadership through Humility

The challenge of leadership is to inspire teams to come together to accomplish a shared goal. Leaders who focus on celebrating their team over celebrating themselves can inspire teams to work together, resulting in higher performing teams, and better outcomes.

Do you have the 7 characteristics of leaders who embrace humility?

  1. Are you real?
    Leaders who understand and share the true balance of their strengths and weaknesses do a better job of connecting with their teams. When leaders pretend to be perfect they’re often seen as inaccessible and distant.
  2. Do you strike a balance between influence and authority?
    Egotistical leaders use shame, threats and intimidation to get the results. Humble leaders use their influence to encourage others, reserving their position of authority to set direction for team members.
  3. Do you support and promote others?
    Humble leaders push their team members’ accomplishments to the forefront; often to the benefit of the team member’s career advancement. Their first priority is supporting the accomplishments of the individuals they lead.
  4. Do you build others up?
    Those who do believe in their team’s ability to succeed, and they communicate that belief early and often. When something goes wrong, a humble leader coaches their team through figuring out what happened, and coming up with a plan for next time.
  5. Do you reframe failure as learning?
    When being lead with humility, team members know that losing a battle is a learning opportunity and that the team will continue to work through the challenge together.
  6. Do you lead with integrity?
    This integrity provides clarity of role and expectation for everyone on the team. The team understands the importance of following through on their promises.
  7. Are you grateful?
    Grateful leaders value what each person brings to the table, and are thankful for the diversity each voice contributes to the conversation.

“Great leaders don’t need to act tough. Their confidence and humility serve to underscore their toughness” – Simon Sinek

As Leaders, We are Called to Serve

 Why servant leadership is vital to leading effectively

I often here people share how they want to do more charity work and wish they had more time to do outside of work.  The reality is we DO have the opportunity to do service work with our colleagues every day.   

You may have heard the team a servant leader. The idea of servant leadership is that the typical hierarchy where employees are supposed to serve their leaders is turned upside down. Instead, leaders serve their people.  The word ‘servant’ has traditionally been depicted as a lowly, negative position, yet as Meriam-Webster dictionary defines it, it is a person who is devoted to or guided by something.

What employee would not want to work for a leader that is devoted to helping them and the company?  I believe that truly is the difference between a leader and a boss.
In his book, The Culture Engine, organizational consultant S. Chris Edmonds says that servant leadership is the foundation for leading others effectively.

According to Edmonds, “servant leadership is a person’s dedication to helping others be their best selves at home, work, and in their community. Anyone can serve–and lead–from any position or role in a family, workplace, or community.”   Culture drives everything that happens in an organization and team day to day – having a leader with the mindset and action that serves others, the company, customers, etc. promotes a great culture that drives performance, helping to attract and retain talent.

All servant leaders share two fundamental beliefs about the people they lead, and engage in five practices that put these beliefs into action.

Servant leaders believe that…

  • Every person has value and deserves civility, trust, and respect
  • People can accomplish much when inspired by a purpose beyond themselves.

According to Edmonds, the five practices of servant leaders include…

  1. Clarify and reinforce the need for service to others Servant leaders educate the members of their team through their words and actions, and they encourage their people to set aside self-serving behaviors in favor of serving others.
  2. Listen intently and observe closely – Servant leaders really listen to people, and they actively solicit their participation, their ideas, and their feedback. In time, they get to know the perspective of each one of their employees, and they tailor their leadership approach accordingly.
  3. Act as selfless mentors – Servant leaders know that by helping to guide the people who work for them, they will help their employees learn vital skills that will both improve their performance, and improve them as people.
  4. Demonstrate persistence – Servant leaders realize that one or two conversations may not have the desired change in an employee’s assumptions or mindset. So they are tenacious and invest whatever time it takes to educate and inspire servant leadership practices in the members of their team.
  5. Respectfully hold themselves and others accountable for their commitments Servant leaders know that no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes–including themselves. With that in mind, they push for high standards of performance, service quality, and alignment of values throughout the team, and they hold themselves and their people accountable for their performance.

At Aha! Leadership, we are proud to serve you… our clients, colleagues and friends.    We are thankful for the opportunity to do so!

Source: “The Culture Engine” by S. Chris Edmonds